Article 27, IQ's Best Friend- Adversity Quotient! a Requisite to a Sure Win Attitude! [Part 4 of 6]

[Self-Improvement] AQ is a skill that all of us should possess. We need to pass all adversity tests, be it small or big tasks. A person should not miss out just any Q. MQ is moral-based skills that works with inner conscience and compassion as a human with feelings and guided to be righteous and just. MQ is a "MUST" to be mastered at home or in the society. Leading by example, monkey see, monkey do.

[6] AQ Adversity Quotient'

No matter what happened, we have to pass all adversities. We ought to pass all small and big tests alike.'

Who is without adversity? Where is there no rain or pain? To be able to face or deal with negatives is really a skill that all should master! Without AQ, a jilted professional will still jump from the tallest building to end his life. That would be the end of the story. No journey of life is just a stretch of smooth and straight road. No one's life is made of honey and milk only. No one lives in beds of roses as one expect of life. Our life journey is made more meaningful when spiced with challenges and tasks. It will strengthen our character and be fearless to further challenges in life. The skill in passing all these small and big tasks are expected of all of us.

Even when one possesses IQ, EQ, TQ, DQ, CQ or other Qs, but lack of AQ, it is meaningless. This setback will hinder a person's success and he will have no strength or skill to deal with negatives of life. All wise men are said to be touched with certain levels of adversities of life. Master this skill and pass the test with doctorate.

Adversities come in the form of misfortunes, poor health, jilts, incurable sickness, accidents, divorces, separations, unstable marriage, miscarriages, retrenchments, handicaps, unemployment, poverty, debts, deaths, failures, bankruptcies, lost of fame and many uncountable defects of life. Can we stand firm and steady at our feet to face them? To face them without tears or fears? Do we all have this ability or capability to pass these tests? How can one possess such AQ? Easier said than done. Look out for some more articles to come..

[7] MQ Moral Quotient

'Do not do to others that you don’t like others to do unto you'

This proverb emphasizes the importance of character molding in which we obtain self-control, good character, manners and habits, and understanding moral values as a human should be.

We have to obtain a bigger bunch of grapes of virtue. The grapes of virtue includes kindness, being filial, trustworthiness, unselfishness, love, generosity, be soft-spoken, peaceful, humbleness, gentleness, meekness, forgiving, thankful, grateful, considerate, patient, fidelity, obedience, loyal, graceful, justice, pious, reasonable, logical, positive and so forth…

A doctor who has all the other valuable quotients is a failure if he does not have MQ! Get what I mean? Who can bear with a doctor who is never considerate? Who will believe in him if he is a liar, a cheat, a bogie, a hypocrite? No matter how thick his certificate or his wealth, he couldn't erase off those black marks of life. This is a must Q that all of us should master. All of us should learn to lead by examples, monkey see, monkey do. As parents, we must know how to instill proper thinkings and characters when our kids are young.

At a tender age, these children are easily disciplined. Don't wait until the bamboo is grown tall and unbending. It all starts from our homes, so all parents and elders, all of us should be aware of behaving the right ways in front of them. Children well cared for and guided will produce another generations of wise and strong leaders of the tomorrow. Our world so much lack of such morals and characters and it is time that we involve positively towards achieving a healthier and happier populace. Remember the law of harvest!

to be continued.....