Article 14, LOVE or SEX? 95% or 5%? Good or Bad Influence? 10 Questions to Ask Oneself

[Relationships:Love] Unfortunately, bad sex influence is everywhere. The search for the 95% love is being abandoned! The search for true love have been put aside. The search for genuine love have been blinded by too many distorted pictures of unnatural and unhealthy sex. But the search for true love is not obtainable from sex. It cannot be achieved through advertising for one, it cannot be bought by cash, it cannot be forced, it cannot be manufactured!

Unfortunately, bad sex influence is everywhere! The search for the 95% love is being abandoned! The search for true love have been put aside. The search for genuine love have been blinded by too many distorted pictures of unnatural and unhealthy sex.

But the search for true love is not obtainable from sex. It cannot be achieved through advertising for one, it cannot be bought by cash, it cannot be forced, it cannot be manufactured!

True love is a simple flow of good feelings that one knows no ending. A person who truly loves will know no regret nor be lost in the crowd. It will be a continual flow that starts from a shower and gathered enough into streams and widens into a river that flows into the ocean and never to be dried up.

Dirty sex is just like a pool of stagnant water, easily dirtied and dried and left no trace worth honoring nor remembering. And eventually nobody remembers much of it anymore. Just for the fun of it, but left alone as 'shameful' histories.

Before going any further, answer some of these questions....

[1] How legal is this sex business in your country?

Many countries ban and treat dirty sex as illegal. Illegal trades and business are only practised in the dark. Done secretly and illegally. Why aren't these trades being promoted or encouraged legally? Why do you think that the government should take action over such trades?

[2] How safe is sex among strangers?

Unfortunately, raw sex is being over-emphasized and exaggerated. Too much explicit love are bold and distorted themselves, never giving the true picture of what real, safe and meaningful sex should be. A sacred and holy act between spouses have been manipulated into disgusting money business and profiteering fun. Rapes, rape-murders, molests, incests, prostitution or sex under 18, porn are considered a shame in a healthy society.

[3] How safe is internet for all of us?

The internet is alive with so much explicit sex that some people are themselves unaware of becoming addicts to sex sites and becoming a pervert himself. And it did give rise to alarming rate of sinful and wrong doings at home and eventually in the society. They thought that what they see is true and real and right!

[4] Do you happen to know the ten commandments from the holy Bible?

What did it say? Did it mentioned about 'Do not commit adultery? I thought I saw it in all bibles, be it in any languages possible and available. We are no lower animals that only seek pleasure of the flesh!

[5] Are you not concerned with what your younger siblings be doing?

If you love your younger siblings, make sure that they are on safe grounds. Make sure that they grow up in a healthy environment. Make sure that they won't regret one day for wrong impulses or desires that are sinful. You will be blamed.

[6] Do you have young kids in your home?

Can you face a youngster who talk dirty to you and be involved in dirty sex? And these youngsters are your beloved children? Where is moral and discipline? Where is righteousness and strict upbringing? Are they ready for sex?

[7] Are there other more meaningful ways of earning money?

Don't be lured by easy money, easy come, easy go too. Don't sell our dignity. Money earned should not be against our inner conscience or at the expense of one's pain or suffering.

[8] Do you know the meaning of 'cheap or loose' for a woman?

Respect is earned from being a woman of dignity and fine personality. A woman is a future wife and mother to their children that indirectly molds our future generation.

[9] How many sex transmitted diseases do you know?

There are countless cases of sex transmitted diseases that are degenerative to one's physical health and destructive to one's emotion and mental state. It is now a dangerous game that resembles to playing with fire and eventually many will get hurt and burnt. There is no one to see and attend to the aftermaths of those suffering victims of sexually transmitted diseases, too painful and shameful to be revealed. So much guilt and remorse, too sad and never worth mentioning.

[10] How many people have died from AIDS?

Life written cannot be rewritten. Death is sweet to some, but are you well prepared to face it?

Fear and shun evil, accept and embrace goodness. Our passion in doing things should not be restricted to achieving temporary sensual pleasure of our flesh only! Our passion of life should be diverted towards achieving a healthier and happier community. Our passion of lfe should bring meanings and human values to all. We should stay to remain steadfast to our faith. We should bring honour and respect to our country. MQ[moral quotient] will sum up the whole article.

Do the right things before you do things right!