[Relationships:Love] Unfortunately, bad sex influence is everywhere. The search for the 95% love is being abandoned! The search for true love have been put aside. The search for genuine love have been blinded by too many distorted pictures of unnatural and unhealthy sex. But the search for true love is not obtainable from sex. It cannot be achieved through advertising for one, it cannot be bought by cash, it cannot be forced, it cannot be manufactured!
Unfortunately, bad sex influence is everywhere! The search for the 95% love is being abandoned! The search for true love have been put aside. The search for genuine love have been blinded by too many distorted pictures of unnatural and unhealthy sex.
But the search for true love is not obtainable from sex. It cannot be achieved through advertising for one, it cannot be bought by cash, it cannot be forced, it cannot be manufactured!
True love is a simple flow of good feelings that one knows no ending. A person who truly loves will know no regret nor be lost in the crowd. It will be a continual flow that starts from a shower and gathered enough into streams and widens into a river that flows into the ocean and never to be dried up.
Dirty sex is just like a pool of stagnant water, easily dirtied and dried and left no trace worth honoring nor remembering. And eventually nobody remembers much of it anymore. Just for the fun of it, but left alone as 'shameful' histories.
Before going any further, answer some of these questions....
[1] How legal is this sex business in your country?
Many countries ban and treat dirty sex as illegal. Illegal trades and business are only practised in the dark. Done secretly and illegally. Why aren't these trades being promoted or encouraged legally? Why do you think that the government should take action over such trades?
[2] How safe is sex among strangers?
Unfortunately, raw sex is being over-emphasized and exaggerated. Too much explicit love are bold and distorted themselves, never giving the true picture of what real, safe and meaningful sex should be. A sacred and holy act between spouses have been manipulated into disgusting money business and profiteering fun. Rapes, rape-murders, molests, incests, prostitution or sex under 18, porn are considered a shame in a healthy society.
[3] How safe is internet for all of us?
The internet is alive with so much explicit sex that some people are themselves unaware of becoming addicts to sex sites and becoming a pervert himself. And it did give rise to alarming rate of sinful and wrong doings at home and eventually in the society. They thought that what they see is true and real and right!
[4] Do you happen to know the ten commandments from the holy Bible?
What did it say? Did it mentioned about 'Do not commit adultery? I thought I saw it in all bibles, be it in any languages possible and available. We are no lower animals that only seek pleasure of the flesh!
[5] Are you not concerned with what your younger siblings be doing?
If you love your younger siblings, make sure that they are on safe grounds. Make sure that they grow up in a healthy environment. Make sure that they won't regret one day for wrong impulses or desires that are sinful. You will be blamed.
[6] Do you have young kids in your home?
Can you face a youngster who talk dirty to you and be involved in dirty sex? And these youngsters are your beloved children? Where is moral and discipline? Where is righteousness and strict upbringing? Are they ready for sex?
[7] Are there other more meaningful ways of earning money?
Don't be lured by easy money, easy come, easy go too. Don't sell our dignity. Money earned should not be against our inner conscience or at the expense of one's pain or suffering.
[8] Do you know the meaning of 'cheap or loose' for a woman?
Respect is earned from being a woman of dignity and fine personality. A woman is a future wife and mother to their children that indirectly molds our future generation.
[9] How many sex transmitted diseases do you know?
There are countless cases of sex transmitted diseases that are degenerative to one's physical health and destructive to one's emotion and mental state. It is now a dangerous game that resembles to playing with fire and eventually many will get hurt and burnt. There is no one to see and attend to the aftermaths of those suffering victims of sexually transmitted diseases, too painful and shameful to be revealed. So much guilt and remorse, too sad and never worth mentioning.
[10] How many people have died from AIDS?
Life written cannot be rewritten. Death is sweet to some, but are you well prepared to face it?
Fear and shun evil, accept and embrace goodness. Our passion in doing things should not be restricted to achieving temporary sensual pleasure of our flesh only! Our passion of life should be diverted towards achieving a healthier and happier community. Our passion of lfe should bring meanings and human values to all. We should stay to remain steadfast to our faith. We should bring honour and respect to our country. MQ[moral quotient] will sum up the whole article.
Do the right things before you do things right!
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Monday, April 28, 2008
Article 13, Love? Sex? Oh! That is Just 5% of What Love Might Represent! What About the Other 95%? [part 3 of 3]
[Relationships:Love] Here is a continuation of the previous 2 articles. I have here written another 5 categories of love. Love among business partners, love for Mother Nature, love for animals, love for our country and love for oneself. But be reminded that one should emphasize on the 95% love instead of sex! Get the real picture of true love, not sex. Too many of us are not ready for sex yet! They are our children! They are our little brothers and sisters! But are they safe from bad influence? Are they protected? Don't you love them anymore?
[6] Colleagues/business partners' love
The secret as to keep a good relationship between working partners or business partners is to apply the right concept of thoughts, speech and deeds. One should stay not to cross the border of partnership into becoming too familiar or too personal. Due respect will be a both win/win situation. A strong partnership will be destroyed especially when it comes to uncontrolled physical attraction that leads to forbidden sex between married spouses. Thus, it is of great importance that business partners earn each other's respect through remaining and maintaining at the level of 'partner-friendship' in business only.
[7] Love for Mother Nature
MOTHER NATURE is most productive when in blossom. Mother Nature is at its best when there is balance of yin and yang. Mother Nature is best tapped when there is clear, clean, fresh air, water and unpolluted environment. Mother Nature should be kept as natural as possible. We will only benefit from a perfect balance of fauna and flora. The sun will shine at day, the moon at night. We work in the day and rest at night. We will only benefit from its rich natural resources without destroying Mother Nature. We will pay a heavy price for neglecting her too. Love for Mother Nature will keep our earth a better place to live in.
[8] Love for animals
Many people keep pets as companions especially for those who stay or work alone. Some pets are kept by the old and aged as close companions too. The love for animals cannot be compared to that of human beings. Some animals are sacrificed for the sake of industrial profiteering purposes. Animal industries and farms rear and slaughter many animals for the sake of food too. Perhaps it should be the last resort to go into meat eating when we talk on achieving health. Vegetarians can survive well without eating meat! By all means, less slaughtering is preferred and encouraged
Moreover, your choice of pets are to be loved and taken care of when you want them at the first place. Don't join the crowd in slaughtering or mutilating animals. They are cute and fun-loving actually.
[9] Love for country
Patriotic love for a country is a valuable pride. The strength of the country depends very much on the height of patriotic love among its citizens. With such loyalty towards his or her own country is found, patriotic love will stand towards solving civil wars and unnecessary fights.
[10] Love for oneself
Love for oneself is not meant to just pamper oneself by feeding our body and mind or getting oneself nicely dressed up. Love for oneself is not to be self-centered. . One should focus on the awakening of the true self which is not selfish and acknowledging the feelings of 'I' and 'Mine' into 'God' and 'God's'. When one's attention is directed to the inner-self where the indwelling God dwells, one will perceive that we are all brothers and sisters in our human forms. The presence of God in all will thus make one be filled with reverence and thus sanctifies every act of us. That is the true love for oneself.
Upon understanding our true selves, all of us will be geared towards achieving true happiness and gain peace of mind and peace at heart. Becoming selfless, achieving inner wisdom of true self will enormously improve our human race. We will be fine and whole again. When one feels reverence and respect all human beings, the world will be so much put right. Our upside down earth can be juggled to be put in place. Yes, put right when all of us understand the meaning of 'I', a name we all call ourself. The 'I' is that spark of Divinity. The collectively 'I' refers to the same body, the same mind and the same spirit.
To sum up I have collectively written 10 categories of love. True love is contained in all. True love stretches from the beginning to infinity, true love creates, true love answers all questions, true love touches all human beings. There are times that people become naughty and sinned. But true love is long-suffering and patient in the awakening of the other's love. We need not search further, love is everywhere. True love is loving and forgiving. But one must be true to oneself first.
Be comforted that we are still be able to love and to be loved. Be happy that we can still respect oneself and many others. But be reminded that one should emphasize on the 95% love instead of sex! Get the real picture of true love, not sex. Too many of us are not ready for sex yet! They are our children! They are our little brothers and sisters! But are they safe from bad influence? Are they protected? Don't you love them anymore?
[6] Colleagues/business partners' love
The secret as to keep a good relationship between working partners or business partners is to apply the right concept of thoughts, speech and deeds. One should stay not to cross the border of partnership into becoming too familiar or too personal. Due respect will be a both win/win situation. A strong partnership will be destroyed especially when it comes to uncontrolled physical attraction that leads to forbidden sex between married spouses. Thus, it is of great importance that business partners earn each other's respect through remaining and maintaining at the level of 'partner-friendship' in business only.
[7] Love for Mother Nature
MOTHER NATURE is most productive when in blossom. Mother Nature is at its best when there is balance of yin and yang. Mother Nature is best tapped when there is clear, clean, fresh air, water and unpolluted environment. Mother Nature should be kept as natural as possible. We will only benefit from a perfect balance of fauna and flora. The sun will shine at day, the moon at night. We work in the day and rest at night. We will only benefit from its rich natural resources without destroying Mother Nature. We will pay a heavy price for neglecting her too. Love for Mother Nature will keep our earth a better place to live in.
[8] Love for animals
Many people keep pets as companions especially for those who stay or work alone. Some pets are kept by the old and aged as close companions too. The love for animals cannot be compared to that of human beings. Some animals are sacrificed for the sake of industrial profiteering purposes. Animal industries and farms rear and slaughter many animals for the sake of food too. Perhaps it should be the last resort to go into meat eating when we talk on achieving health. Vegetarians can survive well without eating meat! By all means, less slaughtering is preferred and encouraged
Moreover, your choice of pets are to be loved and taken care of when you want them at the first place. Don't join the crowd in slaughtering or mutilating animals. They are cute and fun-loving actually.
[9] Love for country
Patriotic love for a country is a valuable pride. The strength of the country depends very much on the height of patriotic love among its citizens. With such loyalty towards his or her own country is found, patriotic love will stand towards solving civil wars and unnecessary fights.
[10] Love for oneself
Love for oneself is not meant to just pamper oneself by feeding our body and mind or getting oneself nicely dressed up. Love for oneself is not to be self-centered. . One should focus on the awakening of the true self which is not selfish and acknowledging the feelings of 'I' and 'Mine' into 'God' and 'God's'. When one's attention is directed to the inner-self where the indwelling God dwells, one will perceive that we are all brothers and sisters in our human forms. The presence of God in all will thus make one be filled with reverence and thus sanctifies every act of us. That is the true love for oneself.
Upon understanding our true selves, all of us will be geared towards achieving true happiness and gain peace of mind and peace at heart. Becoming selfless, achieving inner wisdom of true self will enormously improve our human race. We will be fine and whole again. When one feels reverence and respect all human beings, the world will be so much put right. Our upside down earth can be juggled to be put in place. Yes, put right when all of us understand the meaning of 'I', a name we all call ourself. The 'I' is that spark of Divinity. The collectively 'I' refers to the same body, the same mind and the same spirit.
To sum up I have collectively written 10 categories of love. True love is contained in all. True love stretches from the beginning to infinity, true love creates, true love answers all questions, true love touches all human beings. There are times that people become naughty and sinned. But true love is long-suffering and patient in the awakening of the other's love. We need not search further, love is everywhere. True love is loving and forgiving. But one must be true to oneself first.
Be comforted that we are still be able to love and to be loved. Be happy that we can still respect oneself and many others. But be reminded that one should emphasize on the 95% love instead of sex! Get the real picture of true love, not sex. Too many of us are not ready for sex yet! They are our children! They are our little brothers and sisters! But are they safe from bad influence? Are they protected? Don't you love them anymore?
Article 12, Love? Sex? Oh! That is Just 5% of What Love Might Represent! What About the Other 95%? [part 2 of 3]
[Relationships:Love] Distorted sex is a disgrace in the face of LOVE. It has deformed a sacred act which is only meant for husband and wife. Lust and uncontrolled desire are negative forms of human love. Be principle-centered, don't be a pervert, Yin and Yang must be balanced. What a once upon a time kept inside the bedroom is now on public display. Explicit sex, is that what we want to happen to our beloved daughters and loved ones? Aren't we not better than those animals on the streets? Forgive me for saying so!
[4] Spouses' love
This is a conditional love, a selfish love that doesn't or won't allow a third party. Is it good or bad? Can you imagine a someone who loves all and practises polygamy? That is not correct too. For goodness sake, think twice..... which do you prefer, monogamy or polygamy? I can predict chaos, disputes, jealousy, envy, selfishness .... if one allows multiple partners. Maybe I am conservative, maybe you are not, but to prevent is better than cure. Since this love is expressed by sex physically, don't distort sexology which should be sacred as well between husband and wife. Sex is part of our life as of food and drinks. It is a physiological and emotional need shared between loved ones.
Don't be a pervert. Be principle-centered. Ying and Yang balancing emotional acts will bond a loving couple whereby an imbalance will upset them. Lust and uncontrolled desire are negative forms of human love. To possess another person's body or mind, be it physically or mentally is something unkind. At least, love is about sharing and caring. It is our culture, our attitude towards how one looks at sex. Too much explicit and wrong concepts of sex from different medias have influenced our society and causing an alarming degrading of moral values among us. Let's pray that this negative will come to a stop. It all starts from us, as parents to set a good example.
Don't get yourself involved, be wise.... for the sake of all... for the sake that love or sex between spouses is sacred as should be, and meant to be a positive and healthy practise.... It is an attachment, sometimes a headache when there is a misunderstanding. Think twice, there is always this law of love. Don't be entangled in the webs of miseries, lies, desperate cries and eventually these marriages will soon die off
[5] Friends' loves
Friendships among friends are genuine relationships. Friendship is earned through trials and errors, proven with time, cemented by trust and forbearance. Mutual respect is one important trait between friends. 'Be friendly but not too familiar' is also a phrase that I always emphasize. As married friends we know our limits as not to go too personal.
A friend is ever so kind and understanding. A friend is ever so caring and considerate. A friend is ever interested in our work, but not interrupting. A friend is ever so concerning, be we literate or illiterate.
A friend's smile will be so enlightening. A friend's smile will be so encouraging. A friend's smile will be so touching. A friend's smile will be so warming.
Whoever and wherever that friend he is. Whatever and whichever that friend he is. He is always concerned and looks into our needs. Really a friend in need and a friend indeed.
He is that somebody who won't meddle up things. He is that somebody who won't burden you with things. He is that somebody who tells you not to worry about small things. He is that somebody who tells you not to do bad things.
He is that somebody who wipes our sweat and says. You need a rest. He is that somebody who wipes our tears and says. It is just God's test. He is that somebody who comforts our fears and says. Relax and stand it. He is that somebody who sacrifices his years and says. It is worth it!
A friend knows when to talk and when not to. A friend knows when to hug us and when not to. A friend knows our weaknesses, yet never complaining. A friend knows our heart's desires and always stimulating. A friend knows our silent, hidden, suppressed feeling. A friend knows our rate of heart beat and sick feeling. A friend knows our silly habits and favorite dishes. A friend knows our silly fantasies and wishes.
Yet never laughing at us in any way. Yet never looking down upon us either way. Yet never blaming us for who we are. A true friend indeed is a blessed, rare gift from GOD
to be continued....
[4] Spouses' love
This is a conditional love, a selfish love that doesn't or won't allow a third party. Is it good or bad? Can you imagine a someone who loves all and practises polygamy? That is not correct too. For goodness sake, think twice..... which do you prefer, monogamy or polygamy? I can predict chaos, disputes, jealousy, envy, selfishness .... if one allows multiple partners. Maybe I am conservative, maybe you are not, but to prevent is better than cure. Since this love is expressed by sex physically, don't distort sexology which should be sacred as well between husband and wife. Sex is part of our life as of food and drinks. It is a physiological and emotional need shared between loved ones.
Don't be a pervert. Be principle-centered. Ying and Yang balancing emotional acts will bond a loving couple whereby an imbalance will upset them. Lust and uncontrolled desire are negative forms of human love. To possess another person's body or mind, be it physically or mentally is something unkind. At least, love is about sharing and caring. It is our culture, our attitude towards how one looks at sex. Too much explicit and wrong concepts of sex from different medias have influenced our society and causing an alarming degrading of moral values among us. Let's pray that this negative will come to a stop. It all starts from us, as parents to set a good example.
Don't get yourself involved, be wise.... for the sake of all... for the sake that love or sex between spouses is sacred as should be, and meant to be a positive and healthy practise.... It is an attachment, sometimes a headache when there is a misunderstanding. Think twice, there is always this law of love. Don't be entangled in the webs of miseries, lies, desperate cries and eventually these marriages will soon die off
[5] Friends' loves
Friendships among friends are genuine relationships. Friendship is earned through trials and errors, proven with time, cemented by trust and forbearance. Mutual respect is one important trait between friends. 'Be friendly but not too familiar' is also a phrase that I always emphasize. As married friends we know our limits as not to go too personal.
A friend is ever so kind and understanding. A friend is ever so caring and considerate. A friend is ever interested in our work, but not interrupting. A friend is ever so concerning, be we literate or illiterate.
A friend's smile will be so enlightening. A friend's smile will be so encouraging. A friend's smile will be so touching. A friend's smile will be so warming.
Whoever and wherever that friend he is. Whatever and whichever that friend he is. He is always concerned and looks into our needs. Really a friend in need and a friend indeed.
He is that somebody who won't meddle up things. He is that somebody who won't burden you with things. He is that somebody who tells you not to worry about small things. He is that somebody who tells you not to do bad things.
He is that somebody who wipes our sweat and says. You need a rest. He is that somebody who wipes our tears and says. It is just God's test. He is that somebody who comforts our fears and says. Relax and stand it. He is that somebody who sacrifices his years and says. It is worth it!
A friend knows when to talk and when not to. A friend knows when to hug us and when not to. A friend knows our weaknesses, yet never complaining. A friend knows our heart's desires and always stimulating. A friend knows our silent, hidden, suppressed feeling. A friend knows our rate of heart beat and sick feeling. A friend knows our silly habits and favorite dishes. A friend knows our silly fantasies and wishes.
Yet never laughing at us in any way. Yet never looking down upon us either way. Yet never blaming us for who we are. A true friend indeed is a blessed, rare gift from GOD
to be continued....
Article 11, Love? Sex? Oh! That is Just 5% of What Love Might Represent! What About the Other 95%? [part 1 of 3]
[Relationships:Love] Let's look at the types of loves that people always eye differently. When we talk about love, many minds would be reminded of the physical act of love between males and females. Oh! that is just maybe 5% of what love might represent. What about the other 95% Love? Love is the universal language that unites, that light up this universe, that bridge peace and joy and faith. Love knows no barrier, no hate, no lies, love is flawless... read more to understand the many other types of love!
All of us are blessed to love and to be loved, Cheers!
TO LOVE is to show by examples of loving all mankind through sharing and caring.
TO BE LOVED is to expect readers to understand the message of 'to love and to be loved' and learn from it and apply them to yourself, your family and to all other humans beings. Why?
The message here is clear and dear. Love is a great topic where no one is not touched. But perhaps to many people, love is restricted to only just that special one or just within the family or his circles of friends. It is not wrong too. Isn't this love only for someone or our parents or those whom we are related? "Ask me to love others? Impossible, they don't love me, why should I love them?" I want to mind my own business, I am too busy with my 'loved ones'.
But if one can just accept the fact that we are brothers and sisters living in the same planet, Earth, try to expand this most powerful emotion, LOVE for all. What I am talking now is about divine love, a genuine love which is called an UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. Our Lord even loves the sinners, it is true! Loving sinners and everyone of us. Aren't we also sinners? If God discriminate people in groups of saints and sinners, which category will we be then? Where can God place us then? . Let's look at the types of loves that people always eye differently. When we talk about love, many minds would be reminded of the physical act of love between males and females. Oh! that is just maybe 5% of what love might represent. What about the other 95% Love? A white blank sheet of paper dotted with a small black spot; and the rest of the paper left untouched! What can we see on this piece of paper? The answers of most people will be seeing the black dot, not the 95% of the paper which is white!
Well, it is just natural.... nothing to be alarmed... Most of us have been trained to see the black spot, not the big white space that surrounds the black spot. Most people are not trained to see the white space in the paper. Most people looks at things negatively.
There are many different types of love, I have collectively written them down for all to have a glance.... maybe you can add in some more...these are just some of these love.
[1] Divine or Genuine love
This is divine love that radiates from the highest level of love that mankind knows and needs. It is from a divine source. It is an unconditional love for all mankind, his creations. The cup of love will be so full that it will overflow and the more you give, the more the cup will be filled up....
This is the universal language that unites. This is the grandest love of all, unfading and eternal, it has been in existence beyond any creation in space or cosmos, before time or after time......this love will create and bear the fruits of peace and happiness and encourages spiritual wealth and health that will exists forever....
Because of this love, we are 'lighted' with this powerful source of emotion, this is the 'bridge' to peace, joy and faith. Love knows no barrier, love knows no hate, love knows no lies.... Love is flawless.
Many problems arises among us because we have forgotten to place Divine Love as priority. Divine Love when placed first among other loves will solve countless problems on entanglements.
[2] Parental love
Whoever you are or whatever status you are now, we are all born of a woman, the most respectful woman whom we call our mother. And raised in a family where there is this male-head, we call the father. We cannot deny this fact, we are not cloned or mass produced by any material source. We are born human and we have human parents. Respect and love is demanded and expected of us. No other love can exceed this human love from our parents. gee.... our parents call us babies no matter how old we are.... rite? In our parents eyes, we are and will be always babies for them even when one climbs up the family tree to become a grandfather! It is as commanded, love our parents.
There have been countless stories of unconditional love shared on parental love, telling us on how great and valuable this parental love is. You might not understand yet, but when you become a parent, you will taste it too. So, take some time to be with our parents, call them, serve them, obey them, heed them, love them....at least to see them comforted and provided for till one day they be rested. By then, don't regret that you have loved less, cared less and cry over those things you have never done!
[3] Siblings' love
We talk about brotherhood or sisterhood.... actually there is no such word, but to evoke in all a better memory of brotherly or sisterly relationships. Blood is thicker than water, know what I mean? Brothers and sisters are all born of the same womb of your mother. Remember these? That we grew up together, we played together, bathed together, laughed together and fought each other.... We spent many years together....
Love between siblings are wonderful bonds that are shared only among brothers and sisters. Reflect on what is genuine and expand it... There are touching real stories where the strength of brotherly or sisterly love are tested. As brothers and sisters, we love and trust each other at the same time gain mutual understanding and partnership.
to be continued...
All of us are blessed to love and to be loved, Cheers!
TO LOVE is to show by examples of loving all mankind through sharing and caring.
TO BE LOVED is to expect readers to understand the message of 'to love and to be loved' and learn from it and apply them to yourself, your family and to all other humans beings. Why?
The message here is clear and dear. Love is a great topic where no one is not touched. But perhaps to many people, love is restricted to only just that special one or just within the family or his circles of friends. It is not wrong too. Isn't this love only for someone or our parents or those whom we are related? "Ask me to love others? Impossible, they don't love me, why should I love them?" I want to mind my own business, I am too busy with my 'loved ones'.
But if one can just accept the fact that we are brothers and sisters living in the same planet, Earth, try to expand this most powerful emotion, LOVE for all. What I am talking now is about divine love, a genuine love which is called an UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. Our Lord even loves the sinners, it is true! Loving sinners and everyone of us. Aren't we also sinners? If God discriminate people in groups of saints and sinners, which category will we be then? Where can God place us then? . Let's look at the types of loves that people always eye differently. When we talk about love, many minds would be reminded of the physical act of love between males and females. Oh! that is just maybe 5% of what love might represent. What about the other 95% Love? A white blank sheet of paper dotted with a small black spot; and the rest of the paper left untouched! What can we see on this piece of paper? The answers of most people will be seeing the black dot, not the 95% of the paper which is white!
Well, it is just natural.... nothing to be alarmed... Most of us have been trained to see the black spot, not the big white space that surrounds the black spot. Most people are not trained to see the white space in the paper. Most people looks at things negatively.
There are many different types of love, I have collectively written them down for all to have a glance.... maybe you can add in some more...these are just some of these love.
[1] Divine or Genuine love
This is divine love that radiates from the highest level of love that mankind knows and needs. It is from a divine source. It is an unconditional love for all mankind, his creations. The cup of love will be so full that it will overflow and the more you give, the more the cup will be filled up....
This is the universal language that unites. This is the grandest love of all, unfading and eternal, it has been in existence beyond any creation in space or cosmos, before time or after time......this love will create and bear the fruits of peace and happiness and encourages spiritual wealth and health that will exists forever....
Because of this love, we are 'lighted' with this powerful source of emotion, this is the 'bridge' to peace, joy and faith. Love knows no barrier, love knows no hate, love knows no lies.... Love is flawless.
Many problems arises among us because we have forgotten to place Divine Love as priority. Divine Love when placed first among other loves will solve countless problems on entanglements.
[2] Parental love
Whoever you are or whatever status you are now, we are all born of a woman, the most respectful woman whom we call our mother. And raised in a family where there is this male-head, we call the father. We cannot deny this fact, we are not cloned or mass produced by any material source. We are born human and we have human parents. Respect and love is demanded and expected of us. No other love can exceed this human love from our parents. gee.... our parents call us babies no matter how old we are.... rite? In our parents eyes, we are and will be always babies for them even when one climbs up the family tree to become a grandfather! It is as commanded, love our parents.
There have been countless stories of unconditional love shared on parental love, telling us on how great and valuable this parental love is. You might not understand yet, but when you become a parent, you will taste it too. So, take some time to be with our parents, call them, serve them, obey them, heed them, love them....at least to see them comforted and provided for till one day they be rested. By then, don't regret that you have loved less, cared less and cry over those things you have never done!
[3] Siblings' love
We talk about brotherhood or sisterhood.... actually there is no such word, but to evoke in all a better memory of brotherly or sisterly relationships. Blood is thicker than water, know what I mean? Brothers and sisters are all born of the same womb of your mother. Remember these? That we grew up together, we played together, bathed together, laughed together and fought each other.... We spent many years together....
Love between siblings are wonderful bonds that are shared only among brothers and sisters. Reflect on what is genuine and expand it... There are touching real stories where the strength of brotherly or sisterly love are tested. As brothers and sisters, we love and trust each other at the same time gain mutual understanding and partnership.
to be continued...
Article 10, LOVE or SEX? 95% or 5%? Good or Bad Influence? 10 Questions to Ask Oneself...
[Relationships:Love] Unfortunately, bad sex influence is everywhere. The search for the 95% love is being abandoned! The search for true love have been put aside. The search for genuine love have been blinded by too many distorted pictures of unnatural and unhealthy sex. But the search for true love is not obtainable from sex. It cannot be achieved through advertising for one, it cannot be bought by cash, it cannot be forced, it cannot be manufactured!
Unfortunately, bad sex influence is everywhere! The search for the 95% love is being abandoned! The search for true love have been put aside. The search for genuine love have been blinded by too many distorted pictures of unnatural and unhealthy sex.
But the search for true love is not obtainable from sex. It cannot be achieved through advertising for one, it cannot be bought by cash, it cannot be forced, it cannot be manufactured!
True love is a simple flow of good feelings that one knows no ending. A person who truly loves will know no regret nor be lost in the crowd. It will be a continual flow that starts from a shower and gathered enough into streams and widens into a river that flows into the ocean and never to be dried up.
Dirty sex is just like a pool of stagnant water, easily dirtied and dried and left no trace worth honoring nor remembering. And eventually nobody remembers much of it anymore. Just for the fun of it, but left alone as 'shameful' histories.
Before going any further, answer some of these questions....
[1] How legal is this sex business in your country?
Many countries ban and treat dirty sex as illegal. Illegal trades and business are only practised in the dark. Done secretly and illegally. Why aren't these trades being promoted or encouraged legally? Why do you think that the government should take action over such trades?
[2] How safe is sex among strangers?
Unfortunately, raw sex is being over-emphasized and exaggerated. Too much explicit love are bold and distorted themselves, never giving the true picture of what real, safe and meaningful sex should be. A sacred and holy act between spouses have been manipulated into disgusting money business and profiteering fun. Rapes, rape-murders, molests, incests, prostitution or sex under 18, porn are considered a shame in a healthy society.
[3] How safe is internet for all of us?
The internet is alive with so much explicit sex that some people are themselves unaware of becoming addicts to sex sites and becoming a pervert himself. And it did give rise to alarming rate of sinful and wrong doings at home and eventually in the society. They thought that what they see is true and real and right!
[4] Do you happen to know the ten commandments from the holy Bible?
What did it say? Did it mentioned about 'Do not commit adultery? I thought I saw it in all bibles, be it in any languages possible and available. We are no lower animals that only seek pleasure of the flesh!
[5] Are you not concerned with what your younger siblings be doing?
If you love your younger siblings, make sure that they are on safe grounds. Make sure that they grow up in a healthy environment. Make sure that they won't regret one day for wrong impulses or desires that are sinful. You will be blamed.
[6] Do you have young kids in your home?
Can you face a youngster who talk dirty to you and be involved in dirty sex? And these youngsters are your beloved children? Where is moral and discipline? Where is righteousness and strict upbringing? Are they ready for sex?
[7] Are there other more meaningful ways of earning money?
Don't be lured by easy money, easy come, easy go too. Don't sell our dignity. Money earned should not be against our inner conscience or at the expense of one's pain or suffering.
[8] Do you know the meaning of 'cheap or loose' for a woman?
Respect is earned from being a woman of dignity and fine personality. A woman is a future wife and mother to their children that indirectly molds our future generation.
[9] How many sex transmitted diseases do you know?
There are countless cases of sex transmitted diseases that are degenerative to one's physical health and destructive to one's emotion and mental state. It is now a dangerous game that resembles to playing with fire and eventually many will get hurt and burnt. There is no one to see and attend to the aftermaths of those suffering victims of sexually transmitted diseases, too painful and shameful to be revealed. So much guilt and remorse, too sad and never worth mentioning.
[10] How many people have died from AIDS?
Life written cannot be rewritten. Death is sweet to some, but are you well prepared to face it?
Fear and shun evil, accept and embrace goodness. Our passion in doing things should not be restricted to achieving temporary sensual pleasure of our flesh only! Our passion of life should be diverted towards achieving a healthier and happier community. Our passion of lfe should bring meanings and human values to all. We should stay to remain steadfast to our faith. We should bring honour and respect to our country. MQ[moral quotient] will sum up the whole article.
Do the right things before you do things right!
Unfortunately, bad sex influence is everywhere! The search for the 95% love is being abandoned! The search for true love have been put aside. The search for genuine love have been blinded by too many distorted pictures of unnatural and unhealthy sex.
But the search for true love is not obtainable from sex. It cannot be achieved through advertising for one, it cannot be bought by cash, it cannot be forced, it cannot be manufactured!
True love is a simple flow of good feelings that one knows no ending. A person who truly loves will know no regret nor be lost in the crowd. It will be a continual flow that starts from a shower and gathered enough into streams and widens into a river that flows into the ocean and never to be dried up.
Dirty sex is just like a pool of stagnant water, easily dirtied and dried and left no trace worth honoring nor remembering. And eventually nobody remembers much of it anymore. Just for the fun of it, but left alone as 'shameful' histories.
Before going any further, answer some of these questions....
[1] How legal is this sex business in your country?
Many countries ban and treat dirty sex as illegal. Illegal trades and business are only practised in the dark. Done secretly and illegally. Why aren't these trades being promoted or encouraged legally? Why do you think that the government should take action over such trades?
[2] How safe is sex among strangers?
Unfortunately, raw sex is being over-emphasized and exaggerated. Too much explicit love are bold and distorted themselves, never giving the true picture of what real, safe and meaningful sex should be. A sacred and holy act between spouses have been manipulated into disgusting money business and profiteering fun. Rapes, rape-murders, molests, incests, prostitution or sex under 18, porn are considered a shame in a healthy society.
[3] How safe is internet for all of us?
The internet is alive with so much explicit sex that some people are themselves unaware of becoming addicts to sex sites and becoming a pervert himself. And it did give rise to alarming rate of sinful and wrong doings at home and eventually in the society. They thought that what they see is true and real and right!
[4] Do you happen to know the ten commandments from the holy Bible?
What did it say? Did it mentioned about 'Do not commit adultery? I thought I saw it in all bibles, be it in any languages possible and available. We are no lower animals that only seek pleasure of the flesh!
[5] Are you not concerned with what your younger siblings be doing?
If you love your younger siblings, make sure that they are on safe grounds. Make sure that they grow up in a healthy environment. Make sure that they won't regret one day for wrong impulses or desires that are sinful. You will be blamed.
[6] Do you have young kids in your home?
Can you face a youngster who talk dirty to you and be involved in dirty sex? And these youngsters are your beloved children? Where is moral and discipline? Where is righteousness and strict upbringing? Are they ready for sex?
[7] Are there other more meaningful ways of earning money?
Don't be lured by easy money, easy come, easy go too. Don't sell our dignity. Money earned should not be against our inner conscience or at the expense of one's pain or suffering.
[8] Do you know the meaning of 'cheap or loose' for a woman?
Respect is earned from being a woman of dignity and fine personality. A woman is a future wife and mother to their children that indirectly molds our future generation.
[9] How many sex transmitted diseases do you know?
There are countless cases of sex transmitted diseases that are degenerative to one's physical health and destructive to one's emotion and mental state. It is now a dangerous game that resembles to playing with fire and eventually many will get hurt and burnt. There is no one to see and attend to the aftermaths of those suffering victims of sexually transmitted diseases, too painful and shameful to be revealed. So much guilt and remorse, too sad and never worth mentioning.
[10] How many people have died from AIDS?
Life written cannot be rewritten. Death is sweet to some, but are you well prepared to face it?
Fear and shun evil, accept and embrace goodness. Our passion in doing things should not be restricted to achieving temporary sensual pleasure of our flesh only! Our passion of life should be diverted towards achieving a healthier and happier community. Our passion of lfe should bring meanings and human values to all. We should stay to remain steadfast to our faith. We should bring honour and respect to our country. MQ[moral quotient] will sum up the whole article.
Do the right things before you do things right!
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